Hi,
I feel it's only fair to start this entry with an apology from my side. Sorry for the delay with new blogpostings.
It has been busy, I would even say very busy, these last months. Not only in a professional sense as specialist in niche-marketing & niche-sales, also in a personal sense as a lot ado at home and in a sporting sense with the roll out of new sessions and initiatives.
During the last quarter I got involved in 2 great goalie initiatives:
- the RHKS from Pirmin Blaak and Jan Lelieveldt
- the Xmas goaliecamp from Tim Knudsen
The three of them acknowledge the value of mental aspects to become a better goalie or said differently: things between your ear can will influence the performance between the posts.
What struck me during this period was a theme that popped up over and over again: We are talking about an (early) (bad) goal.
What I mean by that is: an early goal, a bad goal or even (better forbid) an early bad goal.
The occurance of bad a/o early goals does something to the goalies mind......like
- lose confidence
- introduce doubt
- negative self-speak
- fear of failure
- feeling of being judged upon negatively
- remarks from teammates
- brilliant tips on how to prevent this next time.......
Now I could fill tonnes of blogspace on all this possible outings , and there are many more, but in the end it comes down to 1 thing and one thing only: GET OVER IT! You can't change a d*****d thing about it anymore & you want to perform at your best in the remainder.
More easily typed than done you might think. To some extent that might be true, but it's not that complicated.
There are some tips you can enroll strictly to make it happen:
- Evaluations are great: should be done, good stuff to learn from.
Evaluations are in place: ONCE THE GAME IS OVER!! - Strong emotions tend to take a goalie out of the flow
KEEP IT FACTUAL: we were scored upon; that can happen (for now; all is allowed at evaluations) - NEGATIVE self-speak needs to be shut down (this applies to ALL SITUATIONS and especially upon bad goals)
Get back to being concentrated on the here & now - setting UNREALISTIC goals, since these are killing for all goalies
unrealistic as in: a goal that's outside the goalies full control (not being scored upon is a bad goal in that sense; there are situations that we can do everything to the best of our abilities and still not being able to prevent a player or team from scoring!!)
What it comes down to: RESET yourself. as if you were starting the game. Give your head a temporary option to get back to the (powerful) feeling you had on entering the game. It's back to "0 - 0" and regain your power and mindset from that starting point.
Funny? Silly? Childish? Or just a workable alternative to all of the 'standard' events, as mentioned above??
One last note on realistic goalsetting:
I do promise that my entries for 2012 will come more frequently: I'm aiming for 10 entries on regular basis.Is that the subject for this note: me apologizing?
Nope. Although there's something to take out of my promise.
By defining a goal, the likeliness that you could reach it rises...
By making it explicite (as in: writing it down), it gets out of your head and can be looked upon & read
By sharing (as in: letting others know what your target is), you commit yourself to a bigger extent
So: setting a goal is a good thing. Make it realistic but challenging. Have the gut to write it down and spread your news! Chances are that you might meet your goal without particular notice, but that's not a rule of thumb! It might still be necessary to give the process a good deal of your attention.
Good netminding over the holidays!


